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My Areas of Expertise

-- adult children of borderline parents -- growing up in an environment of sudden outburst of anger, frustration, emotional instability (aggression, silence, aggression, positivity, aggression, sleeping, repeat), push-pull emotions, ticking bombs,

-- emotional manipulation -- you feel that certain people, especially those you're romantically involved with, use your love against you for a personal gain,

– toxic relationships, draining you of your energy, leaving you disappointed and emotionally burned out; you leave them just to start another, just alike one; you feel that you allow others for certain behaviours or situation towards you that cause you emotional or physical pain, and it's because you just want to make them happy,

-- unhappy relationships -- you try to love them, to heal them, to make them happy, if they only allowed you to make them happy, love them and love you back you'd create for them the best relationship ever,

feeling of lack of love in your childhood or adult life, feeling of not belonging, fear of conflicts,

sexual assault, bulling, discrimination

helplessness, powerlessness towards people and situations,

disappointment towards people, love, doubt you’ll ever find love.

I am to work with:

Hearts who have felt that they have never been loved, they have not experienced warmth and safety from their parents or partners but still are full of love and compassion for others.

 

Fragile bodies that have experienced so much emotional pain (as the physical pain they might have experienced does not hurt as much) that it could fill the whole universe, but they are still kind and compassionate towards others... simply because they don't want others to ever feel this heart-tearing pain.

"We are Loveand Love is all there is"- Sue Beer"Healing the addicted heart".

Why do I choose to work in these areas?

-- I have personal experience in living and overcoming these situations.

-- I know how it feels to be trapped in a situation without seeing a way out,

-- Repeating a negative behaviour (that you're not even aware of),

-- I know how it is to hear "It is you", believing it and blaming yourself for others' unhappiness,

-- I know how it feels to try to fix others and try to make them happy... and how they abuse it...

-- I know how a situation can feel normal as that's how it's always been, since you remember,

-- I know relationships that make you ache to the point of complete and utter emotional burn out... you end one just so you can start another one that leaves you as pumped-out as the previous one,

-- The feeling of not belonging, being different... 

-- The feeling of being refused something due to your status (e.g. marital, social, background, origin, childless/parents).

-- I know how much energy, and time, and self-work, and self-change, and courage it demands and how tiring it can be... and this questions in your head: "Will I ever get better? Will I ever get rid of it all? How much longer?"

-- I know it is possible to heal if you want to do it.

My Areas of Expertise

Areas of Expertise

EFT and NLP

During my sessions, I use EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). EFT is a form of energy medicine that involves tapping on specific points on the body to release negative emotions and beliefs. NLP is a technique that helps you reprogram your thoughts and language patterns so you stop repeating the same old mistakes. You learn to see what was unseeable before: that there's a different way to live your life.

 

Let me rephrase a quote from Ted Hughes's book "The Iron Man", "You are who you choose to be") and write YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO BECOME WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE, WHO YOUR HEART HAS ALWAYS WANTED YOU TO BE.

Talk Therapy

During our talks I keep an eye contact with you. I tune into your voice and intonation. All this allows me to observe any non-verbal reactions and emotions that are controlled by your subconscious and stored deep inside your body. So that your body helps me to help you.

Integrated Energy Techniques IET

In addition to EFT, I also offer other forms of energy medicine, like IET. It is a form of energy healing modality that aim to clear physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual blockages in the body and mind.

Pretty words aside: I combine both EFT and NLP to create the best possible aid that would bring peace and healing.

It means that no session is the same and no method is the same for each individual. In my opinion, this creates the most individually adjusted tool that a therapist can use with a client.

Areas of expertise
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